Sunday, November 10, 2013

The insanity of fear...

What keeps us from ever realizing our true potential? Is it the fear of pain, rejection or worse... true happiness? Maybe some in this chaotic world just can't handle the latter or better yet fear it. Bewildered by choices that life offers we often self destruct and in its wake is nothing short of sadness. By a simple expression of ones inner most thoughts, words can be twisted into almost any meaning others want to hear. Is this due to the conditioning of disappointment? Is it really true that intuition is ALWAYS RIGHT? Giving in to your inner demons and sharing true feelings can hurt those you see real potential in. When we say things before thinking, words that are heard are rarely forgotten. This is unfortunate. Sometimes we only listen to what we want because the fear inside us refuses to allow us to hear the whole story. There is always more to it if we hear the true meaning of these words. Sharing ones pain in the hopes of healing and trying to let go of the fear can be maddening. This world needs more people willing to share and also willing to be a part of the healing process. How many of us really has a person in our lives that knows it all about us? Is it impossible to get inside the minds of those around us, into this deep inner sanctum? Acting on intuition and speculation can limit the potential that a good thing just may be just that. When we find something worth exploring why do we choose to not fight for it? Is it the fear of opening up, being real and letting one inside our walls? Sometimes people say what their minds think and have to live with the consequences. Other times it would be nice if the words spoken could be understood or explored so they may learn exactly what makes one tick. The use of the L word is a most powerful tool. When one chooses to express themselves in this light the fear of rejection becomes consuming. Wanting to wait for the right time is truly ones choice. But more importantly the fear of having it stopped being heard is what keeps us from opening new doors and starting anew. The insanity of this notion is why some are never happy, others are alone yet for a choice few it is why they will not give up trying. They know that they will love again. Fear of rejection cannot be what keeps you quiet. The past is just that and it is there to be learned from. Do not let fear stand in your way of finding that diamond in the rough. It is a good thing to be honest and even better when you can admit your faults. Do not let the fear of the past keep you from a future that could be better than what your dreams have shown. It takes work from both parties to make it in this world together. We can all live in the past which is ripe with fear, pain and rejection.... Or we can ignore the insanity and ask forgiveness, hope for a chance, and maybe finally stand up and be heard.
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